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From Seattle City Hall and elegant hotels, to churches and homes across the state, many of the 1,000 same-sex couples who received marriage licenses last week are now wed. Lily West and Michelle Odo's married life is just beginning.(Photo by Sandra Coan Photography, presented by Vows Wedding and Event Planning)

A wedding day that was 'better than a dream' in Seattle

An elegant ceremony at the Four Seasons in Seattle was the kind of wedding many little girls imagine. For Michelle and Lily, reality is better than a dream.

Saying their vows and celebrating with a kiss in front of their friends, Lily West and Michelle Odo's married life is just beginning.

"We met in college 13 years ago, Michelle moved up to Seattle first," Lily says.

"No, 14 years, ago," Michelle interrupts. "We've been together 15 years."

"Well, okay," Lily smiles.

They act the same as any couple who playfully bickers about how long they've been together.

The wedding backdrop of tulle, crystal and candles looks like any other ceremony at an upscale hotel. So, even they were surprised that the day seemed to change them.

"It means more to me than I expected," says Lily.

Both women are in their 30s.

They had a civil commitment ceremony this summer, but now that they are legally married in Washington, Lily finds herself more emotional on her wedding day than she thought she would be.

Her feelings pop up like bubbles in champagne.

"Oh God," she says with a sigh of relief after the ceremony. "I feel probably what everyone feels on their wedding day. I'm lucky, and happy and snuggly. I just want to go home and be together all the time.

Lily says she's also feels something new. She never really fit in in school, and has felt discrimination because she's a lesbian, but not anymore.

"Just knowing that we're now included - and I don't think either one of us were big on being included in school or whatever - feels better than I ever thought it would."

Michelle says their wedding, for her, was a political statement.

"Not that it's a 'take it to the streets' kind of politics," she explains. "It was important to us to get the license on the first day and get married on the first day just to be part of the numbers and to show how this legislation affects as many people as it does."

Also at the Four Seasons last night, Dick Francisco witnessed his first gay wedding.

He was born in Seattle 95 years ago, and he's seen a lot of changes to his city.

"Welcome everyone. We're here on this glorious day to celebrate the love that Jordan and Danny have for one another, and to recognize their decision to marry."

Francisco's grandson Jordon Rayburn, married the man he wants to spend the rest of his life with, Danny Schaub.

He watched the ceremony from his wheelchair. It's a spot he's earned as a former Marine Colonel who's been through three wars.

"I'm old school, you know," he says.

Francisco is a member of the greatest generation, with an attitude that's more like the current generation's than his own.

"You either stay away or you give them all the support you can, and I feel I'll give my family all the support regardless of the situation," says Francisco.

He never thought there would be a day when two men or two women could get married.

"It's about time, he says. "You can't stop progress. Seattle is a wonderful place and we all have to either get with it or get out."

Although Washington joined eight other states that allow same-sex marriage, there could still be challenges to the state's new law.

The U.S. Supreme Court will take up gay marriage during the current term. Several pending cases challenge the federal benefit provision of DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act which bars federal recognition of same-sex marriages.

A separate appeal asks the justices to decide whether federal courts were correct in striking down California's Proposition 8, the amendment that outlawed gay marriage after it had been approved by courts in the nation's largest state.

By LINDA THOMAS


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  • Joeh wrote...
    Homosexual
    Mocking marriage in the form of same sex marriage is disgraceful.
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  • Sean wrote...
    I'm still lauging...
    that Washington (OK, mostly King County) voters fell for the very cleverly-crafted, mega-multi-million-dollar ad campaign to elicit sympathy for the poor persecuted, discriminated-against, hated gay community and REDEFINE A WORD for the convenience and self-esteem of a very small minority, when it's the RIGHTS, not the word, that should have been the made (if they already weren't) "equal." Remember, this wouldn't have even been on the table -- after Washington voters PASSED the Defense of Marriage Act a few years back -- if Queen Christine didn't decide to go against the vote of the people and exert her personal will as a last-gasp effort to buy some popularity. A moot point, I know; it's a done deal, but many of us still know what "marriage" means, despite our lawmakers' spineless and cow-towing move to change that -- when it's the RIGHTS that counted. Gay couples will never be identical to hetero couples in the realm of parenting as much as they'd like to pretend and wish they were. But I realize that they simply cannot accept that and they insist that everything and everyone need to considered to be The Same and Equal by Everyone. Quite an amazing thing to witness.
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  • Rangerhawk wrote...
    Void
    where prohibited by law.
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  • Iwillbeatyourass wrote...
    Sick of reading all the comments from closed minded fuc*s!
    I'm not gay! I'm 100% straight and nothing about gay marriage bothers me. BECAUSE IT DOESN'T EFFECT ME! So stop bashing on the gays cos they aren't going away. And hell ya they should get tons of media attention! It's like if black people couldn't get married then all the sudden they allow it, I'm sure the media would be all over it! It's pretty much the same thing! This is historical for Washington state to let everyone have equal rights! We are the country of freedom so who are we to say who you can and cannot marry? And for all the rude comments to the 95 year old man, that just makes me sick to know there are such D-bags living here. Those who made such remarks should be slaughtered. And trust me if anyone says such things to me in person I will do it myself!
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  • imanegro wrote...
    yes, Iwillbeatyourass
    That's a pretty sorry criteria for making a decision. The guy raping little children in Florida also doesn't 'effect' you, but it's still wrong. Same with homo marriage. You KNOW it will be taught in school to little kids, now. It has to be, because the state says it's normal. Just remember, discrimination still abounds- if we want everyone to have equal rights, then we need to stop discriminating against any person that wants to marry any other person, or three. Oh, and if you disagree, Iwillbeatyourass.
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  • Iwillbeatyourass wrote...
    Your so close minded don't even bother
    Talking to you about it is a waste of time. It's like arguing with a pile of crap. Bible thumping A hole
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  • It's me! Ha ha! wrote...
    It's like arguing with a pile of crap. Bible thumping A hole
    The Hate and ignorance from some here.
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  • Iwillbeatyourass wrote...
    Coon
    (;
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  • imanegro wrote...
    Who's arguing?
    I'm simply stating my opinion- we disagree, and you start calling names. I guess the stereotype fits- typical liberal responses from both of you.
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  • Iwillbeatyourass wrote...
    Comparing gay marriage to a rapist in Florida? Such bigoted people!
    Gay marriage is not comparable to the man raping children in Florida. Look at the numbers. Statistics show more straight men molest and rape children then homosexual! How can you have such a mindset and compare the two? Only a bigoted moron would!
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  • BeenThere wrote...
    Iwbya.....If we had more kind, compassionate, understanding and tolerant people like yourself around here,
    it would be a utopian spring. Peace on earth, good will toward men. Btw, are you off your meds?
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  • Iwillbeatyourass wrote...
    Yes I am of my meds
    Not everyone has to agree with me about this, but all the negative comments and remarks towards to old man are completely unnecessary and set me off. Anyone that evil should be put to rest.
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  • It's me! Ha ha! wrote...
    Not everyone has to agree with me about this, but all the negative comments and remarks towards to old man are completely unnecessary and set me off. Anyone that evil should be put to rest
    Iwillbeatyourass posts, Sick of reading all the comments from closed minded fuc*s!

    Wow a five year old hate filled racist throwing a temper tantrum at people who express their opinions!

    Is that you, Seattle Dbag?

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