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Miss Washington on poverty, gay marriage and Toddlers & Tiaras

What is it like to be on a national stage, competing against other gorgeous women, hoping your talent and beauty will stand out, then suddenly hearing the dream is over?

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MissWaMiss Washington, Brittney Henry, was not picked as a semi-finalist in the Miss America pageant. Miss Wisconsin, Laura Kaeppeler, won the crown.

I sat down with Henry to talk about everything from pageant tears and poverty to same-sex marriage and the reality show "Toddlers & Tiaras."

The high-energy scene in Las Vegas a few weeks ago began, as is the tradition, with contestants introducing themselves.

"From the state that brought you Starbucks, you're welcome, I'm Brittney Henry, Miss Washington."

With her long blonde hair, perfect body, and sparkling smile, Brittney stood with equally stunning young women from every other state wondering, will I be a finalist?

"It's so nerve-racking. Your stomach is in a knot just waiting and it's on live TV so that heightens all the emotions," she says.

When Brittney's name was not called, she was "numb."

"I was sad, but I still had a big smile on my face," says Henry. "I was able to accept it, but there were a lot of girls up there with me who were crying and I was able to say to them 'hold it together, we're on national TV.'"

Holding it together has become Henry's specialty. It's something she learned growing up poor in Pierce County. She was raised in Edgewood, which was an affluent area, but her family didn't have any money. She saw other kids around her had nice clothing. She did not. When they talked about expensive things they were going to do or buy, she just listened and "learned how to hide" her financial situation.

By high school, she had become an expert at blending in. She was quiet and never spoke up for herself, even when her friends in class discussed the "leeches on the welfare system," not knowing Henry was "only able to survive" because of food stamps.

That wasn't all she was hiding. She was failing classes too. She took algebra three times.

"In one instance I failed because there was a domestic violence issue happening in my house the night before the final," says Henry. "I held my baby sister in the closet while we called 9-1-1. I didn't sleep at all that night, I showed up to school the next day, tried to act normal, and failed the test."

There are 40,000 Brittney Henrys in Washington today. 40,000 children living in poverty in our state. Even though she didn't become Miss America, she will continue talking to teachers about the impact being poor has on a student's ability to learn. She also talks to students, telling them they don't have to live in shame, with a lack of confidence, like she did.

Henry has a bright future, and has already inspired her mother to complete a nursing degree. Her baby sister is now a teenager and she has another sister who's a teacher in West Seattle. Henry's father died of a crystal meth drug overdose two years ago.

"I never dreamed of big things for my life or becoming anything special," she says.

Although Brittney didn't make it to the final round on the Miss America pageant, when a judge asks a controversial question that forces the young women to think on their feet, I decided to put her on the spot.

The Washington State Legislature is expected to pass a bill allowing same-sex couples to legally marry. Do you support the law?

"I'm pro-equality and equal opportunity for all people. I believe that marriage is one of those issues that should be a legal right granted to all citizens regardless of their sexual orientation," she responds.

Now, a pop culture question. The TV reality show "Toddlers & Tiaras" follows the world of child beauty pageants, showing how moms and dads prepare girls for glitz competitions. In order to compete the girls, some as young as a few months old, wear expensive dresses, wigs, false teeth called flippers, and spray tans. What do you think of these pageants?

"I think it's really sad. I would never put my children in a situation like that," Henry says. "Toddlers and Tiaras is way over the top and I think those pageants can really effect the girls' body image and self-esteem in a negative way."

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Brittney Henry played the Celtic fiddle in the recent Miss America competition and had the highest talent score for a non-finalist, which earned her a scholarship from the Miss America organization.


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  • Snout wrote...
    And who cares what her opinion on anything is?
    As many people who care what my opinion is. Bye bye.
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  • It's me! Ha ha! wrote...
    She is for
    same sex unions as government saction "Marriage".

    ObamaMarriage? Why not. What isn't this Obamunist government into these days?

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  • fartforce1 wrote...
    Id like to see Miss Washington on something ells...
    On TV! Gawf, what did you think I meant?
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  • tlmbrt wrote...
    She HAD
    to agree with same-sex marriage! If she hadn't, they would have booted her out of the competition. Then the media would have ridiculed and mocked her, and destroyed her life, all in the name of political correctness! Remember the last beauty pageant contestant that DARED to support traditional marriage? Exactly....
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  • Sean wrote...
    TIMBRT,
    You are RIGHT ON.
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  • Angry Monkey wrote...
    You kids get off my lawn!
    You guys slay me. You really do. You all remind me of Mr. Wilson from the Dennis the Menace comics; an old curmudgeon with an axe to grind about everything, unable to find anything good to say, and the uncanny ability to politicize everything.

    "Oh, she's for gay marriage, she has to otherwise she would be drummed out of the pageant". Yeah, because God forbid she has her own opinion on something, it must be because of the "liberal media" and the Obama Administration.

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  • DesertRez wrote...
    I agree with her
    When she says "I'm pro-equality and equal opportunity for all people. I believe that marriage is one of those issues that should be a legal right granted to all citizens regardless of their sexual orientation," I think gay AND straight citizens should be able to marry as a man and woman.
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  • It's me! Ha ha! wrote...
    because God forbid she has her own opinion on something,
    Exactly AM. Anything that is not politcally correct. And what could be more politcally correct than speaking out in favor of acceptance of "Gay Marriage?"
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  • Angry Monkey wrote...
    WOOOSH!
    Do you hear that sound Ha Ha? It's the sound of my point flying right over your head.
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  • messiah101 wrote...
    Angry Monkey
    haha's day consists of constant WHOOOSH's ringing in his ears.He still hasn't figured out what that WOOOSH is.He has turned every electronic device off and it still continues.It must be horrible living in his Black and White world
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  • FormerMarineSgt wrote...
    because God forbid she has her own opinion on something,
    Exactly 'It's me! Ha ha!'. GOD forbid that she have her own opinion. OR at least sooo many religious right wingers think. HOW DARE SHE have an opinion other than they one THEY DECIDED that GOD would want her to have. HOW DARE SHE.
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  • It's me! Ha ha! wrote...
    WOOOSH!???
    Ha ha! You have no point AM. Or it is lost in your usual mindless rhetoric.
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  • Angry Monkey wrote...
    ha ha! hahahahahahaha,,,,,,
    I don't think rhetoric means what you think it means. Either that or you're a big fan or irony.
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  • SeattleNative wrote...
    @Monkey: "Yeah, because God forbid she has her own opinion on something..."
    The last time a contestant in a major televised beauty pageant spoke her true opinion when asked about homosexual "marriage", it cost her any shot at the title.

    http://www.heraldsun.com.au/entertainment/confidential/perez-hilton-slams-miss-california/story-e6frf96x-1225700422484

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  • Angry Monkey wrote...
    Seattle Native
    Yes I remember that. So what? Are you suggesting that since one Miss America contestant is against gay marriage, all Miss America contestants are against gay marriage? I don't think that should have cost Miss California her shot at the title, but then I was not one of the judges either.

    Once again, you people never fail to delight with your flawed logic. not everyone who disagrees with you has somehow been brainwashed by this mythical "Liberal Media" I keep hearing about.

    If you read this article more closely you'd note that Miss Washington was not asked about gay marriage by a panel of judges, she was asked about gay marriage by Linda Thomas after she had been eliminated as a contestant. So Miss Washington's title was not at stake, and thus, your argument is invalid.

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  • jstumbo wrote...
    I think he is saying...
    That because of the outcry when you oppose gay marriage, she did not dare say that she does not support it. She has seen what happen to the last contestant that did not support gay marriage. So that might have prevented her from stating her real feelings on the matter. If she opposed it, she would have been called a bigot and ridiculed in the media.
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  • tlmbrt wrote...
    @Angry Monkey
    She may really be in favor of gay marriage. However, if she WASN'T she would still be PRESSURED to say she WAS, lest she be kicked out of the pageant. See what I mean? There is a great deal of pressure to conform to political correctness whenever you are in a public arena, subject to the media and public opinion!
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  • irony wrote...
    she's a dumb blonde...
    go figure..
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