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Dear Ursula: Do I have to send a wedding gift if I wasn’t invited to the ceremony?
Dear Ursula, I received a wedding announcement in the mail from the daughter of a family friend. I was not invited, so I'm torn about whether I should feel obligated to send them a wedding gift.4 days ago
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Ask Ursula: After being in the ‘friend-zone’ for years, should I finally ask my former co-worker out?
Dear Ursula, I would like to take things to the next level in our relationship, but I feel like I have been "friend-zoned."11 days ago
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‘Social media is a lousy place to measure friendship’: Ursula weighs in on being ignored online
Dear Ursula, my friends and family never like my posts, never comment, and never acknowledge anything I share online.18 days ago
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Ask Ursula: Amid a divorce after a 30-year marriage, my in-laws forgot my birthday
I’ve been married for 30 years and am going through a divorce. This year, for the first time in three decades, I didn’t receive a call, text, or even a card for my birthday from my in-laws.27 days ago
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Ask Ursula: Our grandson cries every time he has to come stay with us. How do we make this work?
A grandma who watches her grandson five days a week is struggling after he started melting down at every drop-off. Ursula offers her advice.1 month ago
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Ask Ursula: My daughter borrowed $50K from my 96-year-old father and hasn’t paid it back
My dilemma is that my daughter borrowed a very large sum — $50,000 — from my dad in 2025 and apparently has not paid it back.1 month ago
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Ask Ursula: I was ghosted by some friends and mutual friends won’t tell me why. What do I do?
I recently lost two people whom I thought were very good friends. We were on completely different pages politically and religiously, but our shared love of national parks and photography always came first.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: We bonded over a bad workplace, now I can’t get my friends to stop talking about it
I have a group of friends who have bonded over a really toxic experience at work. However, whenever we get together, that negative time in our lives always comes up.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: I need help managing Gen Z employees and their ‘blank stares’
Dear Ursula, I manage a few Gen Z employees, and there's one who has been a real challenge. For over two years, I’d say "good morning" and just get a blank stare back. No response.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: How do you honor parents who never showed up for you?
Explore ways to honor absent parents with Ask Ursula's insights on navigating complex family dynamics.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: How to get the Mother’s Day you actually want without feeling guilty
For today’s Ask Ursula, I'm going to give advice on some common Mother’s Day dilemmas.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: The best perfumes for tropical, fresh, and coconut scent lovers — tried and tested
Dear Ursula, I have been looking for a signature scent for years. I have spent many hours in the Nordstrom perfume section hunting for something that sparks joy.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: I’ve been engaged for 27 years and now I’m not even welcome in his mother’s home
Dear Ursula, I feel completely lost and alone. I’ve been engaged to my fiancé for 27 years, and until recently, I was always included in his family.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: Are these small moments in my daughter’s marriage red flags, or am I projecting?
Hi Ursula, my 32-year-old daughter has been married for three years, and lately, I’ve noticed moments where he seems to dismiss or override her.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: Why is it so difficult to find an age-appropriate man, where are they hiding?
Discover expert dating advice from Ursula on where to find age-appropriate men and navigate modern relationships.3 months ago
