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Ask Ursula: My cousin’s social media posts make me cringe. Should I say something?
Ursula offers advice on when — and how — to tell a loved one their social media posts may be hurting their professional image.7 days ago
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Ask Ursula: My wife says it’s her or ‘The Gee and Ursula Show.’ What should I do?
A listener in Spain says his wife is tired of podcasts she can’t understand. Ursula offers advice on balancing his listening habits with their marriage.15 days ago
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Ask Ursula: My co-worker’s breath smells like death! How do I tell her?
Discover effective ways to tell your co-worker about her breath smell with advice from Ursula Reutin in this insightful column.22 days ago
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Ask Ursula: How to tell a friend you’re tired of being her therapist
Dear Ursula, I have a really good friend who I feel is taking advantage of my kindness. My friend and I have known each other since high school, and we're now in our 40s.29 days ago
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Ask Ursula: My son’s wedding is a year away and the bride’s parents are deciding everything
Dear Ursula, my son and his fiancé are getting married next winter. Even though it's a long time away, I'm already a nervous wreck.1 month ago
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Ask Ursula: I’m tired of chasing family who never commits to a visit
Dear Ursula, I’m 73 and have been a widower for four years now. All of my family members live in different states and even different countries, and lately I find myself missing them all very much.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: Am I petty for wanting a separate check at family dinner?
Dear Ursula, I love getting together with my family at restaurants, but when it comes to paying the bill, I always dread it.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: My neighbors’ dogs destroyed my fence and now they’re threatening my son
Dear Ursula, I have a situation with my neighbors, and I don't know what to do. Recently, their aggressive dogs chewed through the fence, got into my backyard, and destroyed property.2 months ago
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Ask Ursula: My wife seems withdrawn and depressed. What do I do?
Dear Ursula, I'm sure my wife is depressed. We’ve been married for more than 30 years. She’s a little older than me. I’m 60, and she’s retired.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: As I’m going through a combative divorce, how do I handle a friend who’s in love with me?
Dear Ursula, I'm 58 and in the middle of a contentious divorce from a narcissistic doctor who stripped me of nearly everything.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: My cousin’s daughter confided in me about her drug use, should I tell her mom?
I’m worried about my cousin’s daughter. She’s almost 17, and although our families haven’t been close, I had a chance to spend time with her.3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: My stepson never calls his dad, when can I get involved?
It's been years since my stepson contacted his dad to wish him a happy birthday or even a happy Father's Day. Should I intervene?3 months ago
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Ask Ursula: My wife’s eating disorder is affecting our whole family, what do I do?
I’ve been married for 13 years. Five years ago, my wife was diagnosed with an eating disorder and entered a treatment program based on a "healthy at every size" approach.4 months ago
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Dear Ursula: Do I have to send a wedding gift if I wasn’t invited to the ceremony?
Dear Ursula, I received a wedding announcement in the mail from the daughter of a family friend. I was not invited, so I'm torn about whether I should feel obligated to send them a wedding gift.4 months ago
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Ask Ursula: After being in the ‘friend-zone’ for years, should I finally ask my former co-worker out?
Dear Ursula, I would like to take things to the next level in our relationship, but I feel like I have been "friend-zoned."4 months ago
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‘Social media is a lousy place to measure friendship’: Ursula weighs in on being ignored online
Dear Ursula, my friends and family never like my posts, never comment, and never acknowledge anything I share online.4 months ago
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Ask Ursula: Amid a divorce after a 30-year marriage, my in-laws forgot my birthday
I’ve been married for 30 years and am going through a divorce. This year, for the first time in three decades, I didn’t receive a call, text, or even a card for my birthday from my in-laws.5 months ago
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Ask Ursula: Our grandson cries every time he has to come stay with us. How do we make this work?
A grandma who watches her grandson five days a week is struggling after he started melting down at every drop-off. Ursula offers her advice.5 months ago
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Ask Ursula: My daughter borrowed $50K from my 96-year-old father and hasn’t paid it back
My dilemma is that my daughter borrowed a very large sum — $50,000 — from my dad in 2025 and apparently has not paid it back.5 months ago
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Ask Ursula: I was ghosted by some friends and mutual friends won’t tell me why. What do I do?
I recently lost two people whom I thought were very good friends. We were on completely different pages politically and religiously, but our shared love of national parks and photography always came first.5 months ago
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Ask Ursula: We bonded over a bad workplace, now I can’t get my friends to stop talking about it
I have a group of friends who have bonded over a really toxic experience at work. However, whenever we get together, that negative time in our lives always comes up.6 months ago
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Ask Ursula: I need help managing Gen Z employees and their ‘blank stares’
Dear Ursula, I manage a few Gen Z employees, and there's one who has been a real challenge. For over two years, I’d say "good morning" and just get a blank stare back. No response.6 months ago
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Ask Ursula: How do you honor parents who never showed up for you?
Explore ways to honor absent parents with Ask Ursula's insights on navigating complex family dynamics.6 months ago
